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Toddlers seem to have a language all their own but parents who listen well can learn to communicate effectively with their children and stop many tantrums from happening. Tantrums often occur out of frustration. A child who does not feel heard or understood may resort to crying and screaming. What can a parent do?
Parrot
Children repeat words and phrases they hear in order to understand. Adults who do the same thing can increase communication. A toddler may confuse sounds or words but by parroting a parent can make sure they are hearing and understanding their child correctly, this way the child knows they are being listened to and cared for.
Rehearse
Telling a child what is going to happen allows the child to prepare mentally and emotionally. When parents outline expected behavior for future outings it can prevent misbehavior by giving the child clear instructions. If no discussion takes place a child will go off of their own desires and energy which could lead to disaster. Talking to children after an event whether positive or negative will help teach proper behavior or even point out unwanted behavior and it’s consequences.
Know when to be quiet
Communication is important but there is such a thing as talking too much. This usually happens in discipline where a guardian has already explained themselves but continues to argue with a child. This is a time to stop talking because a child gains more control the more “talking back” and bargaining takes place. Silence can speak louder than words to a child and following through on discipline is the best way to communicate trust.
